Women’s Retreat in Malawi
I have been telling people about the Ladies Retreat Weekend from which I just returned. It was a weekend of Bible Study, prayer, singing, eating good food, playing games, swimming in a beautiful lake and sitting around talking and laughing about nothing. I was using the word “retreat” frequently in my conversation, when it suddenly hit me that the word has several other meanings.
I looked up the word “retreat” today. The dictionary said this:
- “withdraw from enemy forces as a result of superior power or after a defeat”
- “ remove oneself from a difficult situation”
- “withdraw to a quiet or secluded place”
It made me wonder why we called our weekend away a “Retreat.” If we were withdrawing to a quiet place, did that assume the place where we usually reside was not quiet? Did it assume we needed to fall back from enemy forces, and remove ourselves from difficult circumstances? The word “retreat” had always had a connotation of relaxation for me. A time of study, fellowship and laughter. But if we needed a retreat, we also needed to prepare ourselves for returning to our noisy, busy places and to equip ourselves to face our problems and our enemies.
I realized that our annual Mission Women’s Retreat was not just an excuse to let our husbands care for the children, fix meals and do the laundry while we sat around and sunbathed on a tropical beach. Yes, it was nice as a mother to retreat to a quiet place for a few days where I had no one but myself to look after. But if that was all I wanted I could have booked a single room at the local hotel and slept to my heart’s content. Instead, we ladies chose to gather together and spend our time in Bible Study, devotion and prayer. We chose to spend time preparing for our own retreat – getting deep into God’s Word and creating worship opportunities.
During our weekend in a quiet and secluded place – this year it was The Beach House on Lake Malawi – we dove into God’s amazing promises for us in the book of Romans. We ambitiously studied Romans 1 through 8 in ten lessons. We heard St. Paul tell us that we are all without excuse – those with the revealed Word of God and those without the revealed Word of God. We have broken the law and therefore have no claim on heaven. Then we heard how, while we were still sinners, God sent His Son to pay the debt for our sins by dying on the cross. Through faith in Jesus’ sacrifice, we are restored to righteousness in God’s eyes.
This was certainly ammunition to use against our enemies. When we returned from our retreat we could face the devil on the battle line and tell him Christ had already won the victory. When we faced our own sinful nature we could tell it God’s Holy Spirit reigns in our hearts and the New Man is able to not sin. When we faced the trials and temptations, the difficulties and sorrows which the world has to offer we could say with St. Paul in Romans chapter 8
31 What, then, shall we say in response to this? If God is for us, who can be against us? 32He who did not spare his own Son, but gave him up for us all—how will he not also, along with him, graciously give us all things? 33 Who will bring any charge against those whom God has chosen? It is God who justifies. 34 Who is he that condemns? Christ Jesus, who died—more than that, who was raised to life—is at the right hand of God and is also interceding for us. 35 Who shall separate us from the love of Christ? Shall trouble or hardship or persecution or famine or nakedness or danger or sword? 36As it is written: “For your sake we face death all day long; we are considered as sheep to be slaughtered.”[l] 37No, in all these things we are more than conquerors through him who loved us. 38 For I am convinced that neither death nor life, neither angels nor demons,[m] neither the present nor the future, nor any powers, 39 neither height nor depth, nor anything else in all creation, will be able to separate us from the love of God that is in Christ Jesus our Lord.
Perhaps we did go on retreat in order to retreat from our problems and our enemies, but thankfully we didn’t stay there. We returned to our families and our work with a new strength and joy that God has given us the victory in Christ Jesus.
My idea of a retreat totally changed. It wasn’t just a break from crying kids and school runs. It was a chance to review God’s battle plan for our lives, a chance to rejoice in victory already won by Christ, and a chance to encourage one another in our lives of sanctification as God’s Holy Children. And if, while we were doing that, we managed to sunbathe on a tropical beach and eat chocolate truffles, well…. just don’t tell our families how much fun we really had.
Susan Nitz




